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Is It Worth Trying To Date As A 41-Year-Old Single Mom?

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First let me tell you that age doesnt matter at all. I used to have a BIG thing about not dating men younger than me until one day i opened my eyes and realized that the ones my age and older are just as immature as a young man could possibly be. I am 35 and am always being told that i look younger and seemed to really attract younger men for some reason. I gave it a try and was amazed really how much respect and maturity this guy i knew had.

She’s in the middle of messy divorce.

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They have no business complaining. If they are single it is their own fault. There are many more men in their 50’s than women, as women are more likely to smoke and engage in unhealthy lifestyles. Ladies, if you want men, stop smoking, diet, and get in shape. I was in an abusive relationship for 25 years and never want to be in one again.

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And you start to see men in different ways. A woman in her 40s or older has plenty of hard-won lessons and accomplishments of her own to tout, of course. She just might love getting involved with a person who’s on equally-solid ground . On occasion, we go to nice restaurants and nice venues. Occasionally I provide them with $$$ for the little straw they might need. I respect them and I sincerely love and care for them and they respect the fact that I am who I am.

Also, remember that age is not an excuse

Get asked out by younger men, men my age, older men. But I seem to have a broken picker. And, I am really so afraid of being hurt again. My divorce was unexpected and really blind-sided me. And, there were a couple of difficult post-divorce dating experiences and now I’m very skittish and I bolt too fast. Women in this age bracket have it great.

If he likes you/you like them and they are respectful of differences that may arise because of the age difference I would go forward until you start to see red flags as with any relationship. I think this is the most reasonable explanation. “Twentysomething” might mean living with your parents and going to school or living on your own and working. It all depends on what stage you are and if it’s compatible with the stage he is in. Many of the types of guys who stay single that you’ll see after 30 are just not respectable from a dating standpoint.

Try it and stick to it if you like it. But don’t make a common mistake and just avoid women who are much more interesting than most of them. I once met an old man married to an extremely younger woman. He went on a vacation to the Philippines when he was 71 and met his wife, a Filipina girl. Some have argued that she married him for his money, but really her reason was simply because she fell in love with him. He’s now 80, which would make her 27.

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I read here and heard from my wife that I did not have a career and she needed someone that dreams big. She loves me and will always love me, but she needs to move on. As for my soon to be ex, she kept telling me and her family that she wants to have a child and all other blah, blah, blah…but she never had her constant menstrual issues checked.

When it comes to money, I look for someone responsible and somewhat conservative without a lot of debt. I am actually turned off by men who try to impress women with material things. My boss is like one of those arrogant men. I just roll my eyes and think “ugh! Afterwards I had a boyfriend who was the kindest man I have ever known, but his health was not great.

30 y old single mom of a 13 mo old girl. My cousins were helping me out and watched my daughter for a few hours for me… I took it with a grain of salt bc they’re both very young but it is never OK for someone to ask you that. As anybody who’s ever had to play “What are your top five favorite movies?” in a Thai restaurant knows, that’s not love. A lot of us have found ourselves attracted to somebody younger or older, and have been reluctant to act on it because of some perceived weirdness or taboo.

I have great genes and age perfectly. I met a 24 year old who will be 25 soon. He’s gorgeous and knows exactly what to say and how to act. He’s respectful and did I mention gorgeous lol I’m not dating or having sex.

Confirmed Bachelor – You are spot on. 75% of all divorces that occur after the age of 50 are initiated by the woman. The internet is riddled with articles on female hypergamy. Personally I’m good looking, physically fit and financially secure … and date near my age, 50s. Dating young makes no sense at all.

His father and I invited them out here for Christmas. More than a few had misgiving about my husband bering included. His father screamed at him even offering 4000 to just go ahead and take a stinking vacation any where he wanted he would see it happened somhow over Christmas.